Family relationships can be complicated. In this episode of The #staymarried Podcast we answer a question from Ask #staymarried:
“Hey there Tony and Michelle,
My name is Tony also and my wife and I have been married for 8 years. Our marriage is strong and I have to say that listening to your podcasts is refreshing because of your candor and transparency. Here’s something I haven’t heard you two talk about and was wondering if you would consider addressing… estranged relationships with your parents.
My wife’s family is far away and we don’t see them much, but my family is fairly close yet are not very involved in our lives. We have a little boy and an even littler girl, and I sometimes wonder if my parents even care. I think I’d like for our kids to have doting grandparents like our friends around us seem to have, but I’m not sure if this is realistic. Do you think this absence is going to hurt our family in the future? You guys seem happy… do you have grandparents you want to loan us?”
Mr. Tony, we wish we had grandparents to loan you. Instead, we’ll share how we navigate our own tough family members. We hope it helps…
Also, Tony asked me if there was a book I’ve read multiple times. I shared two, and he shared one of his own. Here are the links.
Them – by Joyce Carol Oates
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work – by Dr. John Gottman
The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis
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